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One man spread a rumor about another. He later felt regret, and went to the rabbi to ask how to make amends.

"Go to the store and buy a bag of seeds," said the rabbi, "then go to a big open field and scatter the seeds into the wind. Do so and report back to me in a week."


    The man did as he was told, and came back the next week to find out what to do next. "Now," said the rabbi, "go back to the field and pick up all the seeds."

    "But," protested the man, "those seeds have scattered far and wide! I'll never find them all. Many have even already taken root!"

    "Exactly," explained the rabbi. "Now you understand. When we speak badly about another person, the effect is far and wide. And it is damage that can never be fully undone."

~Author Unknown